# Don't be afraid of risks

Taking a risk that might lead to a unique and surprising outcome? Heck yeah, we're all for it.

If Charlotte and Jonathan hadn't mustered the courage to audition for Britain's Got Talent, they wouldn't have achieved the recognition and success they did. Jonathan had to conquer his self-doubt and step into the spotlight, laying bare his insecurities on national TV. But what was the payoff? A life-altering experience.

This kind of risk is all about embracing a flexible mindset. Saying yes to something new when it's cozier to say no. Stepping out of your comfort zone when it's simpler to stay hidden. Standing apart from the crowd and advocating for what you believe in. Realizing that doing something different can be even better and that if you believe in yourself, others will follow suit.

Bigger risks can unlock massive opportunities.

Plus, some risks aren't all that risky when faced head-on with skill, knowledge, and practice. Check out this video to see how the Storror Parkour group uses practice and skill to overcome challenges.

Taking a risk that might lead to a unique and surprising outcome? Heck yeah, we're all for it.

Don't be afraid of risks

# Don't panic

When you're freaking out and panicking, things can seem way more intense than they probably are. Here's a simple technique to help you find your way back to rational thinking.

Jot down the situation.
1. EXAMPLE: Mom's threatening to leave Dad.

Picture the absolute worst-case scenario. Go all in.
2. EXAMPLE: Mom leaves. Dad loses his job. Mom marries someone else. Dad gets depressed. I have to take care of him and drop out of school.

Envision the absolute best-case scenario.
3. EXAMPLE: They split up and end up happier apart. I score double birthday presents, own both an Xbox AND a PS3, enjoy twice as many vacations, and gain a super cool older step-sibling.

Imagine something between 2 and 3.
4. EXAMPLE: They might take a break, and although they'll be a bit down at first or even happier apart, things will eventually settle. Life will be different for a while, but it'll be manageable.

By picturing the extremes, it becomes easier to arrive at a more likely outcome.

When you're freaking out and panicking, things can seem way more intense than they probably are.

Don't panic

# Exercise

Hop on your bike, dance till the break of dawn, or play tag with a pup at the park. Just find a way to keep moving for 25 minutes or more, and you'll notice an instant mood boost and better vibes to shake off those pesky anxieties.

Exercise is a win-win for your body and mind. It amps up your focus, improves sleep, and can make you look and feel amazing. Embracing an active lifestyle can elevate your mood and help you stay on point.

We all know the drill, but getting started can be tough. So find something YOU dig, even if it's not everyone's cup of tea. Musical theater dance classes? Why not!

Whatever floats your boat, get out there and do it!

Hop on your bike, dance till the break of dawn, or play tag with a pup at the park.

Exercise

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# Introducing the new and improved Super Me

I'm thrilled to announce that I'm bringing back [PlaySuperMe.com](https://playsuperme.com/) from the dead. I was an avid user of the website back in 2014 when I was a young adult, so when I wasn't happy when I recently found out that the site had fallen into decay. That's when I decided to revive the site.

I'm more excited than ever to embark on this incredible journey of personal growth and self-improvement with all of you. My mission is to help young adults like you unleash their inner superheroes by facing life's challenges head-on and emerging stronger than ever.

You might be wondering why I've decided to bring Super Me back to life. The truth is, in this fast-paced, ever-changing world, it's more important than ever for young adults to develop resilience, adaptability, and a growth mindset. I believe that Super Me offers an engaging, interactive, and most importantly, fun way to cultivate these essential life skills.

As I relaunch Super Me, you can expect some exciting new features, fresh content, and updates that will make your experience even more enjoyable and beneficial. I've been hard at work creating new games, challenges, and blog posts that will inspire, motivate, and guide you on your path toward self-discovery and personal growth. 

I want you to be a part of this exciting journey! Feel free to share your thoughts, ideas, and experiences as you explore Super Me. Your feedback is invaluable to me, and I'm eager to learn how we can make this platform even better for you. You can connect with me at [contact@playsuperme.com](mailto:contact@playsuperme.com).

I hope you're as excited as me about the relaunch. Let's go master life!

I'm thrilled to announce that I'm bringing back Super Me from the dead. I was an avid user of the website back in 2014 when I was a young adult, so when I wasn't happy when I recently found out that the site had fallen into decay. That's when I decided to revive the site.

Introducing the new and improved Super Me

# Brain Test

Are you someone who loves a good challenge and enjoys training your brain? If so, we have the perfect game for you!

This game will put your intellect to the test with a variety of exciting puzzles that will leave you feeling satisfied and smarter than ever. But beware, not all puzzles are as easy as they seem. You'll need to think outside the box, trust your common sense, and pay attention to the smallest details.

As you progress through the game, you'll develop smart creativity and better understand how to approach each new puzzle. You'll train your patience and concentration, improve your memory and strategic thinking, and even learn to solve problems on reflexes. Most importantly, you'll learn to think outside the box and develop your problem-solving skills.

With many challenging and tricky puzzles to solve, you'll be able to train your mind on different levels and use various mechanics to think big. And if you ever find yourself stumped, don't worry, you can always use a clue to the puzzle to get you back on track.

So, if you're looking for a game that will challenge you, keep you engaged, and train your brain, give this game a try. You won't be disappointed!

Are you someone who loves a good challenge and enjoys training your brain? If so, we have the perfect game for you!

Brain Test

# Asking someone out on a date

Ah, the nerve-racking task of asking someone out on a date. Whether it's your crush from work, a cute stranger you spotted at the coffee shop, or someone you've been eyeing for a while, it can be an intimidating experience. But fear not, because it's not as high-pressure as it seems.

First things first, rejection happens to everyone. It doesn't matter how cool, funny, or attractive you are, sometimes it just doesn't work out. But don't let the fear of rejection stop you from trying. The worst that can happen is they say no, and that's not the end of the world.

So, how do you ask someone out? There are different ways to do it, but the old-fashioned face-to-face approach still works wonders. If you're too nervous to directly ask them out, try an indirect approach. Ask what they have planned for the weekend and suggest doing something together, like seeing a movie or grabbing a bite to eat. This way, you're not putting all the pressure on them to say yes or no.

But what if they don't know it's a date? It can be confusing, especially if you're not sure where you stand. If it looks and feels like a date, it probably is. However, if they bring along a group of friends, it might not be what you had in mind. In this case, you can either be more direct next time or let it go and move on.

If you're interested in someone you don't know, strike up a conversation and see where it goes. Keep it friendly, open, and comfortable. If you feel a connection, ask them out using one of the methods mentioned earlier. And remember, if they say no, it's not the end of the world. Just thank them for their time and move on.

So, you've got the date, now what? Keep it simple and fun. Dr. Art Markman, author of Smart Thinking, suggests doing something with a chance for conversation and some energy, like bowling or visiting the zoo. The goal is to have a good time and get to know each other better.

In the end, the key to asking someone out is to be confident, but not pushy. Remember, rejection happens to everyone, and it's not the end of the world. So, take a deep breath, put yourself out there, and who knows, you might just get that date you've been dreaming of.

Ah, the nerve-racking task of asking someone out on a date. Whether it's your crush from work, a cute stranger you spotted at the coffee shop, or someone you've been eyeing for a while, it can be an intimidating experience.

Asking someone out on a date

# Connecting with your local community

As an adult, you have the power to make a difference in your community. Whether you're looking to make a positive change or simply want to feel more connected to your town or city, getting involved in your local community can be a great way to make an impact and build a sense of belonging.

If you're not sure where to start, think back to your school days. Remember all the clubs, sports teams, and volunteer opportunities that were available? These opportunities exist in the adult world too, and they can be a great way to get involved in your community.

If you're interested in organized volunteer work, many cities have clubs that support the community and organize volunteers. Service clubs like Rotary Clubs and Kiwanis Clubs are always welcoming new members and can be a great resource for finding volunteer opportunities.

Non-profit organizations also rely on volunteers to carry out their missions and serve on their board of directors. If there's a non-profit in your area that's doing work you care about, reach out and ask how you can get involved.

If you're interested in politics, attend your city council meetings, or reach out to your state's leadership training groups to connect with other future leaders.

For those looking for physical activity, recreational sports teams or exercise classes can be a great way to meet new people and get active. Check out your city's Parks and Rec department for schedules and information on leagues and classes.

If you're looking for a creative outlet, art museums and community centers often offer classes or group projects. Lifelong learning centers can offer classes in a variety of subjects, including languages and hobbies.

And if you can't find an activity that interests you, consider starting your own club or class. Community centers, libraries, and Parks and Rec departments often provide free meeting spaces for clubs and classes.

Getting involved in your community may take a little bravery to get started, but the payoff is huge. Communities and organizations need people to be involved, and you deserve a community that you want to be engaged in. So, take that first step and get involved in something that interests you. You'll be amazed at the impact you can make and the connections you'll build.

As an adult, you have the power to make a difference in your community. Whether you're looking to make a positive change or simply want to feel more connected to your town or city, getting involved in your local community can be a great way to make an impact and build a sense of belonging.

Connecting with your local community

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# Geography Quiz

Are you a geography enthusiast? Or are you someone who just loves to learn new things? If so, then you will definitely love this amazing game! Test your knowledge of countries, capitals, flags, famous landmarks, and even foreign currencies in this exciting trivia game.

This game offers a fun and interactive way to learn about geography. With hundreds of questions and pictures, it is suitable for all ages and perfect for anyone who wants to expand their knowledge about the world we live in. Whether you are a student, a traveler, or just someone who enjoys learning new things, this game is for you.

The game is designed with different modes to keep things interesting. In each mode, a question is asked or a picture with answer options is shown. Your goal is to choose the correct answer and click on it. The game is easy to play, but as you progress, the questions become more challenging, making it a great way to sharpen your memory and test your knowledge.

The leaderboard online feature adds an extra layer of excitement to the game. You can compete against other players from around the world and see how you rank against them. This creates a sense of healthy competition that will keep you coming back for more.

This game is not only entertaining, but it is also educational. You will learn about the different countries, their capitals, and flags, which will help you understand more about the world we live in. You will also learn about famous landmarks, foreign currencies, and other interesting facts that will expand your knowledge.

So what are you waiting for? Download this amazing game today and start your journey of discovery!

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Geography Quiz

# Sudoku Blocks

Looking for a fun and challenging puzzle game? Sudoku Blocks might just be the game for you! It's a unique blend of sudoku and block puzzles that will keep you entertained for hours.

The rules are simple: match blocks to complete lines and squares and keep the board clean. As you progress through the game, you can complete daily challenges and join seasonal events to earn unique trophies and animated postcards.

But the fun doesn't stop there! You can also compete against other players in tournaments and climb the leaderboard. And if you're looking for an extra challenge, try to make several successful moves in a row to get a streak, or destroy several elements at once to make a combo.

So how can you become a Sudoku Blocks master? Take your time and think one step ahead when faced with a difficult move - it might be your last one. Place classic and wood blocks strategically to destroy lines or 3x3 squares with every move to keep the board from filling up. And find your zen by balancing between destroying figures as quickly as possible and getting as many combos and streaks as you can to score higher.

Remember, there's no time limit, so no need to rush. But don't wait too long for a good block, or you may quickly run out of moves. When you see a chance to destroy a figure, go for it!

Sudoku Blocks is the perfect game to relieve stress or train your brain. And with the ability to customize the game with a theme of your choice, you can make it even more personalized and enjoyable. So why not give it a try? You can play anytime, anywhere!

Looking for a fun and challenging puzzle game? Sudoku Blocks might just be the game for you! It's a unique blend of sudoku and block puzzles that will keep you entertained for hours.

Sudoku Blocks

# Just start

You've heard the phrase "reach for the stars," right? You absolutely should! The feeling of conquering a tough goal is incredible. But remember, it might take some time to get there. So, break down your main goal into smaller, achievable chunks.

Want to run a 10k? Begin with a 1k run. If you nail it, you'll be stoked about overcoming a challenge. If you don't, it's a chance to bounce back from a minor setback and give it another shot. And then another.

Dividing a goal into smaller steps fuels your motivation with the hope needed to reach the finish line. Got a dream or a goal? What steps can you take to turn it into reality?

You've heard the phrase 'reach for the stars,' right? You absolutely should! The feeling of conquering a tough goal is incredible.

Just start

# How to say no

Learning how to say "no" can be a difficult but important part of adulthood. Whether it's fear of missing out (FOMO) or the fear of disappointing someone, there are many reasons why saying "no" can be challenging. However, it's essential to learn how to say "no" with grace and less stress. In this post, we will explore some strategies to help you say "no" more gracefully.

Strategy Number One: Take a beat. Don't feel pressured to answer right away. It's perfectly acceptable to say something like, "That sounds interesting. Let me think about it and get back to you." By taking some time to think, you can better discern whether saying "yes" aligns with your priorities and goals.

Strategy Number Two: Deliver the news deliberately. When you come to the conclusion that you need to say "no," it's important to offer your answer with gratitude and context. For example, if you decline an invitation to a party, you might say, "Thank you so much for the invitation, and I'm sure you'll have a great time. But I'm feeling overwhelmed and need some downtime, so I won't be able to make it." By providing context, the other person can better understand your decision and is less likely to feel disappointed or hurt.

Strategy Number Three: Offer an alternative. If you feel conflicted about saying "no," suggest another way to be a part of the project or activity. For instance, you might offer to participate at a later date or recommend someone else who might be interested.

Strategy Number Four: Open in case of "badgers." Sometimes, even after you've said "no," someone might keep asking you to change your mind. In this case, develop a few "badger-proof" phrases to have at your disposal. For example, you might say, "With my current schedule, I would be unreliable, and I won't let myself be that." By putting the emphasis on your schedule, you're less likely to be seen as a jerk for saying "no."

Learning how to say "no" is an essential part of self-care. By using these strategies, you can say "no" with less anxiety and more grace. Remember, saying "no" doesn't make you a jerk, and it's okay to prioritize your own needs and goals.

How to say no

# College Love Story

Are you a fan of drama, romance, and adventure? Do you love making choices and seeing how they shape the story? Then you'll want to check out this addictive interactive story game!

Embark on a journey through the world of college romance, where you'll experience heartbreak, friendship, love, and betrayal. You'll play as a young college girl, making choices that determine her future and shaping her character's story. Choose your own adventure wisely, as your decisions have real consequences in this virtual relationship game.

The game boasts impressive graphics and a cast of beautiful characters, including a jacked college footballer who could be your virtual boyfriend. As you progress through the nine chapters of the story, you'll experience all the highs and lows of college life, from parties and romance to breakups and makeups.

This game is perfect for anyone who loves simulation story games or role-playing games. It's available in multiple languages, including English, Portuguese, French, and Spanish. And best of all, it's completely free!

So if you're looking for a new virtual adventure and a chance to shape your own story, download this addictive game today. Get ready to immerse yourself in a teen romantic college love story like no other!

Are you a fan of drama, romance, and adventure? Do you love making choices and seeing how they shape the story? Then you'll want to check out this addictive interactive story game!

College Love Story

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# Ability

Collecting skills is like building your own personal superpowers, and being talented at something can seriously boost your happiness levels. We could call it skill, talent, or even mastery – they all mean the same thing. One person might be shredding it on the guitar, while another creates legendary Lego battle scenes.

One-way ticket to a bad mood? Doing stuff you totally suck at. If someone's hating on a class or a job, it's probably 'cause they're not nailing it. But hey, don't think something has to be crazy hard to be worth it.

If you're a bit lost on what your hidden talents are, ask your friends for their honest take. Maybe you're known as the go-to listener, the master chef, or the fashion guru. Whatever it is, own it and level up. And if you're already killing it at something, keep pushing yourself to be even better. Trust us, it's a happiness booster!

Collecting skills is like building your own personal superpowers, and being talented at something can seriously boost your happiness levels.

Ability

# Connection

Connection is all about vibing with your crew – friends, family, you name it. It's about making the most of those relationships and understanding that, just like other creatures on this planet, we're not meant to go solo.

Solid connections are awesome when life's a breeze, but they're straight-up lifesavers when things get rough. Talking and listening can help you see things more clearly. The friendship game isn't about quantity, but quality and trust. For some, it's that one ride-or-die, while others might have a tight-knit squad of five or six.

Going it alone doesn't make you a superhero – in fact, bouncing back from life's curveballs is way easier when you can vibe it out with others. Surround yourself with peeps who make you feel happy, confident, and chill. And if you're stressing about what your friends think, remember they're probably feeling the same.

- Doing good for others = instant happiness boost.
- Saying your fears out loud makes them way less scary.
- Getting someone's opinion brings a fresh take on things.
- You'll want your squad around to celebrate the wins, too!

If friendships hit a rough patch, figure out what went down so you can learn from it. Sometimes, we just outgrow our friends – people change, and so do we. And you know what? That's totally cool, too.

Connection is all about vibing with your crew – friends, family, you name it.

Connection

# Endurance

Endurance is all about chasing your dreams. It means setting your sights on a long-term goal and not getting sidetracked by all those shiny distractions. It's about seeing things through to the end, even when setbacks and failures try to knock you down.

Those who've got endurance tend to crush it in life and reach their goals. Think about the most successful people you know – they're the ones who bounce back after taking a hit.

- Don't let failure get to you. Try, try again.
- Keep your head up, even when haters and negativity come your way.
- Set achievable goals and keep grinding towards them.
- Find strategies to stay focused. Little rewards can help you reach the big prize, but don't overdo it – too many treats and you'll forget your main goal!

Endurance is all about chasing your dreams. It means setting your sights on a long-term goal and not getting sidetracked by all those shiny distractions.

Endurance

# Breaking up the right way

Death is a natural and inevitable part of life, and as we grow older, it's expected that we'll experience the loss of loved ones. Although it can be challenging to confront, it's essential to discuss death and the wishes of our family members before it happens. By doing this, we can help guide the decision-making process when the time comes.

When a loved one dies, it's important to reach out to family and friends directly to let them know what's happening. A phone call may be the most considerate way, but a text message could also be acceptable, depending on the circumstances. It's crucial to be as direct as possible, especially when communicating with younger family members who may not understand euphemisms.

Grieving is a highly personal experience, and there's no right way to do it. It's essential to prepare for the unexpected emotions that may arise and to give ourselves time to adjust to our new roles within the family. Taking care of ourselves by seeking grief counseling, taking time off work, and spending time with loved ones is crucial during this period.

Funerals and memorials are formal events that celebrate the life of the deceased. You can wear whatever you think best suits your family and honors your loved one's memory. After the ceremony, it can be helpful to arrange a small get-together with your closest family and friends to relax and celebrate your loved one's life.

In conclusion, grief is a difficult experience, and we don't have to tough it out alone. Taking care of ourselves and each other during this period is essential. If you have any advice or stories about coping with grief, please share them in the comments below.

Death is a natural and inevitable part of life, and as we grow older, it's expected that we'll experience the loss of loved ones. Although it can be challenging to confront, it's essential to discuss death and the wishes of our family members before it happens.

Breaking up the right way

# Communicating in a relationship

Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship, especially a romantic one. It's crucial to understand who has the power and the power dynamics in the relationship. However, this can be challenging to figure out. It's also important to know what abuse looks like, not just from the victim's perspective but also from the abuser's perspective. Many people don't realize when they're being abusive. It's crucial to be aware of this and to diffuse the power imbalance in a relationship.

In any relationship, assuming that people are communicating when they're not is a significant mistake. It's essential to communicate openly and honestly with your partner, even if it may lead to conflict. One should not fear rejection, and it's vital to be upfront about one's mental illness, as the right partner will be understanding and curious about it.

In a romantic relationship, one should not lose oneself while changing for the other person. Compromise is essential, but it's also essential to maintain one's identity. Tough conversations are a necessary part of any relationship, and it's important to learn how to have them effectively.

Overall, communication is the key to a successful relationship, and it's crucial to be open, honest, and willing to learn and grow with your partner.

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